I learned today that some women would take crap from men that they are in relationship with because either they see that man as their ticket out or that they think he is the only chance they have for a romance. And that is quite sad really, because if the man really does LOVE you he would NOT have flirted with other women while he is in a relationship with you.
An engagement ring doesn’t guarantee a “happily ever after” nor a marriage or having kids. And don’t tell me it’s a moment of weakness thing?! That’s not a license for a man to fool around. And if he has done it not just once, twice but three times, shouldn’t your alarm bell go off? And how sure are you that he is not doing it again wherever he is? What assurance do you have that it will not happen for the fourth time? Should you really take that chance? Bear in mind that you have forgiven him once, and if you will forgive him again don’t you think it’s telling him that he can do it again because you are liable to forgive him anyway?
Ask yourself when will the vicious cycle end? When will enough be enough? Shouldn’t you think about yourself? Because every time you forgive him you lose a piece of yourself. Or would you rather wait 5 – 10 years from now to realize the mistake you’ve made when you forgave him.
It’s not the end of the world if you rather chose to be single. If you asked me, I rather be single than be in a relationship built on lies. Remember those kinds of relationship doesn’t last, it’s bound to fail sooner or later.
For your sake I hope I am wrong.
He is not the only man who will fall for you. Why should you settle for less when you can have more?
But then again…that’s your life…
An engagement ring doesn’t guarantee a “happily ever after” nor a marriage or having kids. And don’t tell me it’s a moment of weakness thing?! That’s not a license for a man to fool around. And if he has done it not just once, twice but three times, shouldn’t your alarm bell go off? And how sure are you that he is not doing it again wherever he is? What assurance do you have that it will not happen for the fourth time? Should you really take that chance? Bear in mind that you have forgiven him once, and if you will forgive him again don’t you think it’s telling him that he can do it again because you are liable to forgive him anyway?
Ask yourself when will the vicious cycle end? When will enough be enough? Shouldn’t you think about yourself? Because every time you forgive him you lose a piece of yourself. Or would you rather wait 5 – 10 years from now to realize the mistake you’ve made when you forgave him.
It’s not the end of the world if you rather chose to be single. If you asked me, I rather be single than be in a relationship built on lies. Remember those kinds of relationship doesn’t last, it’s bound to fail sooner or later.
For your sake I hope I am wrong.
He is not the only man who will fall for you. Why should you settle for less when you can have more?
But then again…that’s your life…
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